LGB&T+ officers encouraged to join new group
29 October 2020
LGB&T+ officers are being encouraged to join a support group that has the backing of the Police Federation.
PC Ian Ashton, a Federation rep in Lancashire Constabulary where he has been an officer since 1993, says the LGB&T+ Self-Organised Group he chairs is making a difference to the lives of officers.
“This is a journey I am passionate about and I don’t want to do it alone,” he said in a blog published on the Police Federation website. “So please, if you are LGB&T+ and looking to make a difference or if you just want to be an ally, then join us and ‘Be Proud’.”
Ian revealed he came out for the sake of his mental health after his son Oliver was born with a rare, life-shortening condition.
“This certainly put a different perspective on things and over the coming years life became more difficult,” he explains, adding that he and his wife gradually we drifted apart but remain good friends with Oliver turning 21 on Christmas Day this year.
“It was about this time I decided to be true to myself. I needed to do this for my own mental health but also to ensure Oliver could have the best quality of life. I decided to ‘come out’.”
However, Ian said there was very little support available and what there was met in secret.
“This wasn’t an easy thing to do as it still wasn’t that accepted to be gay, especially in the police,” Ian said. “It was easier for women, that’s a fact, and I knew several gay women, but I knew only one other gay man in the police.
“I went to him for support and he was able to tell me about a secret group of gay police officers that met behind closed doors. But how could that be right?
“There was me making this huge decision but with no idea how it would impact on me or my family and all there was to support me was a secret group.
“It was a difficult time for me but I just knew that I didn’t want anyone else to be feel the way I was, so I took a decision to overcome my struggle and chose to focus on making a difference and ensuring no one else ended up like me with only a secret group for solace.
“I decided to be proud and come out to everyone - my aim being to take that secret group into the 21st century and be visible, open and accepted.
“I became chair of our LGB&T staff support network and took myself with Lancashire Constabulary on a journey of acceptance.
“By being open it encouraged others to come and join the group and together we raised the profile of our LGB&T staff.
“Five years later, a new partner Andy, a number of Pride events attended, rainbow cars, rainbow epaulettes and Stonewall recognition has shown we can in fact be ourselves - and it’s great.
“Anyone who doesn’t agree, well let’s just say you can’t change everyone overnight.”
Ian said that after attending a Federation conference in 2018, he began to develop an LGB&T+ Self-Organised group.
“Surveying the hall, trying to spot the diversity was a bit like a Where’s Wally book,” he said. “It wasn’t easy. I started speaking to people and managed to get on board with a project Ian Saunders was looking at to develop an LGB&T+ Self-Organised Group.
“A small group of LGB&T+ Fed reps were convened and several months later we launched the new Police Federation LGB&T+ Self-Organised Group. I was very privileged to be nominated as its first chair.”
Ian added: “We are known as a Self-organised Group but for me that sounds like we’ve just set ourselves up with no backing, but we are a group that has the full support of the Police Federation, including national chair John Apter, who is keen to work with us to influence and encourage inclusion.”
If you would like to know more about the group, please email LGB&T@polfed.org
